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Child Abuse Hurts Us All
Every child has the right to be nurtured and to be safe.
According to: Family Violence in Canada: A Statistical Profile (2014), police reported data shows that three in five child and youth victims of family violence were victimized by a parent. In 2014, among the approximately 53,600 child and youth victims (17 years of age and under) of violent crime, about 16,300 (31%) were victims of family violence, perpetrated by a parent, sibling, extended family member or spouse. The majority of these victims (61%) were victimized by a parent. For the youngest victims of family violence (those under one year of age), a parent was most often the perpetrator (89%) (Table 4.2).
The damage can last a lifetime. An abused child is more likely to end up in violent or abusive relationships as an adult, and the destructive cycle continues.
We all need to care about children. Today, we are taking more responsibility for intervening in family violence and preventing child abuse because it has to stop.
What is Child Abuse?
Child abuse is the physical, psychological, social, emotional or sexual maltreatment of a child. It harms or endangers the survival, safety, self esteem, growth and/or development of the child. It can involve a single act or a pattern of incidents.
Physical abuse is the deliberate use of force against a child which results, or may result, in bodily harm. It includes behaviours such as shaking, choking, biting, kicking, burning, poisoning, holding a child under water, or any harmful or dangerous use of restraint.
Emotional abuse refers to acts or omissions that harm a child’s sense of self in a way that causes, or could cause, behavioural, cognitive and emotional disorders. Physical neglect may involve inadequate food, clothing, shelter, cleanliness, medical care and protection from harm. Emotional neglect occurs when a child’s need to feel loved, wanted, safe and worthy is not met.
The Facts about Child Abuse
Children rarely mistake it or lie about it.
The majority of physical abuse cases involve inappropriate punishment, meaning that the other cases of physical abuse are more severe.
The most common form of sexual abuse involves touching the child’s genitals, but some of the cases involve attempted or completed sexual intercourse.
In many substantiated abuse cases, the alleged perpetrators are family members or other relatives. Most physical abuse is committed by fathers and mothers, but sexual abuse is usually committed by other relatives or non relatives.
Parents who abuse their children often come from harsh backgrounds themselves, including child abuse. They often lack a support system and have little idea of positive parenting. The family often functions poorly in terms of problem solving, communication and behaviour control.
Often, where there is intimate partner violence,
there is also child abuse.
Exposure to family violence is the most common form of emotional abuse of children.
Impacts of Family Violence on Children
Family Violence research indicates that even when children are not direct targets of violence in the home, they can be harmed by witnessing its occurrence. Children who live in situations of family violence can suffer immediate and permanent physical harm, even death. Often parents believe that they have shielded their children from intimate partner violence, but research indicates that children see or hear many of the incidents. Children who witness family violence suffer the same consequences as those who are directly abused. In other words, a child who witnesses intimate partner violence is experiencing a form of child abuse.
Signs of Abuse and Family Violence
The effects of child abuse and family violence show up in many ways. These are some of the signs especially when they appear in clusters or represent a change in behaviour:
self blame, feelings of guilt and shame, clinging, extreme shyness, extreme and repetitive nightmares, loneliness, long bouts of sadness, social withdrawal, separation anxiety, fear of strangers, fear of others of same gender as abuser, general fearfulness, anxiety and phobias;
feelings of being out of control, intrusive thoughts, feelings of stigmatization, insecure attachment to parents and caregivers, loss of faith, truancy, running away, fighting with peers, criminal offending, early use of drugs and alcohol, substance abuse;
developmental delay, headaches, stomach aches, bed wetting and soiling, eating disorders, self mutilation or burning, thoughts of suicide, dissociation, inappropriate sexual behaviour; and
very low self esteem, difficulty trusting others, difficulty in problem solving, relationship problems, high levels of anger and aggression, violent when angry,
a victim or perpetrator of violence in dating.